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		<title>By: Eh Nonymous</title>
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		<description>Ted,

Amazing how well-reasoned your analysis of the jerk&#039;s negotiating style is.  I would have thought it was less cerebral on his part:

- I am a jerk to people
- When I am a jerk, sometimes they give me what I want
- Being a jerk pays
- When someone acts like a jerk back at me, I will throw a tantrum, but I know that I am dealing with another jerk.  Therefore, I will be forced to negotiate like a reasonable person

I don&#039;t like lawyers who act that way, but I understand they are out there, and I may from time to time have to deal with them.

Interesting is when the Jerk&#039;s behavior is impeding his own interest - when the client is being harmed by the Jerk&#039;s unwillingness to cooperate or communicate.  Then, the Jerk may be out of a job if you can alert the client to the Jerk&#039;s counterproductive (disloyal?) behavior.  Best way to do that:  show up the Jerk in front of the client.  Best way to do the best way:  get a judge to scream at the Jerk.  This should be easy; give the Jerk an opening.
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<p>Amazing how well-reasoned your analysis of the jerk&#8217;s negotiating style is.  I would have thought it was less cerebral on his part:</p>
<p>- I am a jerk to people<br />
- When I am a jerk, sometimes they give me what I want<br />
- Being a jerk pays<br />
- When someone acts like a jerk back at me, I will throw a tantrum, but I know that I am dealing with another jerk.  Therefore, I will be forced to negotiate like a reasonable person</p>
<p>I don&#8217;t like lawyers who act that way, but I understand they are out there, and I may from time to time have to deal with them.</p>
<p>Interesting is when the Jerk&#8217;s behavior is impeding his own interest &#8211; when the client is being harmed by the Jerk&#8217;s unwillingness to cooperate or communicate.  Then, the Jerk may be out of a job if you can alert the client to the Jerk&#8217;s counterproductive (disloyal?) behavior.  Best way to do that:  show up the Jerk in front of the client.  Best way to do the best way:  get a judge to scream at the Jerk.  This should be easy; give the Jerk an opening.</p>
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